Announcement

All for the Family Legal Clinic, Inc. is very proud to announce that we are officially a tax-exempt 501c3 organization. We are very hopeful that this will lead to better and great things for our organizations. We hope that in the next year we will receive grants and donations that will allow us to offer additional services. Stay Tuned!

Annulments

For some reason the topic of getting an annulment instead of a divorce has been coming up quite a bit recently. In California, in order to get a judgment for a nullity of marriage, you have to meet one of the following requirements:

1. Have been unable to consent to the marriage (ex: underage or incapacitated and even then if you continued to live as husband and wife after you became 18 or had capacity this may not apply).

2. One of you was already currently legally married to someone else (bigamy. Again there are even some exceptions to this.

3. Fraud (they lied about their identity, immigration status, etc).

4. Mental incapacity.

Even if you meet one of these requirements, you still need to file within therequired time period to get an annulment instead of a dissolution (divorce).In most cases, this time period is within 4 years of marriage.
If you meet the requirements, then the judge is like a magician and *poof* your marriage never happened.

Estate Planning

We also do estate planning. For many in California it is cheaper to get a living trust done, then the standard cost of probating an estate after you die simply because you own a home. Although we are willing to charge hourly on a sliding scale, most probate attorney's charge based upon the probate statutes, which allow a percentage of the gross estate amount. A person owning a $500,000 home, would likely pay about $12,000 just in attorney's fees. The administrator of the estate could also ask for about $10,000. Eating significantly into the assets that you are leaving your family. Due to this, for those that own property in California, I recommend that they have a living trust.

Here is an article from an estate attorney in Colorado discussing the importance of choosing the right administrator of your estate.

http://www.postindependent.com/news/obituaries/8854798-113/principal-fiduciary-estate-planning?fb_action_ids=10100153357747085&fb_action_types=og.recommends&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%7B%2210100153357747085%22%3A320353878107489%7D&action_type_map=%7B%2210100153357747085%22%3A%22og.recommends%22%7D&action_ref_map=%5B%5D

Discrediting Witnesses

Sometimes when I send client's the opposing sides' witness list, they immediately respond with you can't trust John because he is a criminal. When I ask for details, they do not always know or often they are not things that we can use in court.

If you have evidence of the witness being CONVICTED of a felony or of a misdemeanor that is based on a dishonest act (fraud, theft, perjury) within the past 10 years then you can use that to discredit the witness. However if the witness does not testify truthfully, you will need to have a certified copy of the court record indicating the conviction for the crime. Otherwise, you have to drop the issue after the witness answers no to the question regarding convictions. In California, you cannot ask generally about arrests, but you can ask generally about felony convictions that have occurred within the past 10 years.

If you truly believe that one of the witnesses has been convicted of a felony, then it is often a good idea to hire a private investigator to do the background checks. Otherwise you can go down to the various courthouses and do a check based on their name, city, and birth date. However, this often takes a lot of time and visits to various courthouses. The private investigator is often well worth the extra money for their services.

Put the Child First...

In the heat of a messy divorce, parents often forget to think about the best interest of the children. They do this by focusing on hurting the other parent, failing to realize the impact of fighting in front of the children, or by making negative comments about the other parent within ear shot of the children. All of these things put the children in the middle and often results in emotional harm.

There are often organizations that provide sliding scale services to parents and children in an effort to counter act the impact of divorce of the family unit. In the Bay Area, programs like Kid's Turn (kidsturn.org) provide families with workshops to foster communication, explain divorce to the children, and more. In areas where similar programs may not exist, courts often recommend co-parenting sessions with a marriage and family therapist. They do not focus on your relationship, but do focus on being able to put issues aside long enough to have open dialogue about the needs of the children so that parents can share joint legal custody effectively, and to be around each other at important events in the children's lives.

Like it or not, you will likely have to be involved with each other in some way for the rest of your lives - birthdays, holidays, funerals, weddings, graduations, grandkids, etc. Trying to find a method where you can communicate effectively, or at least be in the same room even if not talking at all, is important to do early on so that the children are not put in a position of choosing between their parents.

Child Support Modifications

Part of the initial divorce process is establishing child support. A court will rarely do a dissolution involving children without establishing guideline child support based upon a statute based formula that although based on multiple factors largely depends on the income of each party and the amount of custodial time they have with the children. However where both parties have joint physical and legal custody and where both parents make around the same income so that  neither is on government aid and the children would not  be disadvantaged by withholding support, or in cases where the custodial parent makes significantly more money that the other party, courts will often sign off on an agreement to not order child support. However unlike spousal support where the right for it can be terminated, child support rights exist until the children are 18 years old (or 19 if they are still in high school). 

If a judge signs off on an order for less than the guideline amount set by the state formula then the party receiving support can essentially ask the court for a modification up to the formula amount without there being any changes in income or custodial time. Otherwise in order to get a change in the amount, there needs to be a change in circumstance from when the initial order was made. This change in circumstance is usually someone making more money, less money, or the visitation arrangements changing. All of those circumstances could drastically change the support amount. 

The amount of support does not just automatically change because you get a court order changing the custody and visitation arrangements. It is the responsibility of the parties to either agree to a modification and file it with the court or to request an order from the court to modify the child support. You will only get a change in support from the date that your motion (request for order) is filed with the court, so it is important to act sooner rather than later. 

If the Department of Child Support Services is involved in your case already then you should contact them to help you make changes to the support amount. If you need help enforcing or establishing an initial order for child support, that is something that you your county's Department of Child Support Services can help with as well. However they do not aid in establishing spousal support, creating a custody and visitation order, and many other issues that you should hire an attorney for. 

Living Trust or Will?

California is one of the states that permits a living trust. Basically you hold on to ownership and control of all of your property while you are alive (without the various tax ramifications of a formal trust) and then when you die the trust owns all of your property - therefore avoiding probate (and the associated costs).

In California, I generally recommend to anyone that owns a home here, that they have a living trust instead of a will. A will needs to go through probate court after you die, and generally costs your estate between $10,000 - 40,000 in attorney's fees. If you have a living trust you may pay $1500 - $5000 up front while you are alive, but you avoid the additional cost of going to probate court.

Often you can get a living trust in a bundle. We do a bundle with a pour over will, a living trust, a power of attorney, and a health care directive all together. Since we charge on a sliding scale, the total cost can be anywhere between $600 - $2500 for this service. Call us today for a quote for you. We also do deals for married couples.